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Communication & Conflict

The small, constant moments — not the dramatic fights — that research says actually predict whether a relationship lasts.

Based on Gottman, Shelly Gable & Andrew Christensen's communication research

The Small Moments That Quietly Decide Whether a Relationship Lasts

Relationships rarely end over one big fight — they erode through hundreds of small, unanswered attempts at contact.

"I Push, You Pull Away": The Cycle Almost Every Couple Falls Into

It looks like one partner is too needy and the other too cold. Research says it's usually a shared, self-sustaining loop.

See your own responsiveness and conflict-style scores — not just how the last fight went.

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